Divorce Guide No. 9 — Especially After · After Divorce
After the Decree: The Complete Post-Divorce Checklist
The judge signed. You're not done. The money, insurance, name, tax, and estate steps that protect everything you just spent a divorce securing.
Charles E. Liken Jr., Esq. — On Colorado's Legal Front Lines Since 1995 · Government Investigator, Denver Human Services (1997–2003) · Licensed Colorado Attorney Since 2003 ~ 20+ Years in Private Practice · Colorado Deputy District Attorney (2018–2020) · Colorado Court-Appointed Child and Family Investigator
The six-front cleanup
Most post-divorce damage happens quietly, months later — an unchanged beneficiary, a missed refinance deadline, a joint card nobody closed. Work the list.
1
Money & credit
Close or separate every joint account and card the decree doesn't require. Calendar the refinance and transfer deadlines in your decree. Pull your credit report now and again in six months — surprises hide there.
Where LLF comes in: We audit your decree into a dated task list — every deadline, every transfer, every account — so nothing quietly defaults.
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Beneficiaries & life insurance
Colorado law automatically revokes many beneficiary designations naming an ex-spouse — but not all of them: employer plans governed by federal law pay the form on file, ex-spouse and all. Update every designation in writing: life insurance, 401(k), IRA, POD accounts.
Where LLF comes in: We sweep every designation against the decree — including the ones the decree requires you to keep (security for support obligations).
3
Health insurance & COBRA
Divorce ends coverage under an ex-spouse's employer plan — but it's a qualifying event: you can generally continue via COBRA for up to 36 months (at full cost) or use the special enrollment window for a marketplace plan.
Where LLF comes in: We make sure the coverage handoff is planned in the decree, not discovered at the pharmacy counter.
4
Your name
Name restoration can be ordered right in the decree — and if it wasn't, a short post-decree motion (JDF 1824/1825) fixes it. Then the cascade: Social Security, DMV, passport, bank, employer.
Where LLF comes in: We handle the motion and hand you the certified copies agencies demand — usually without a hearing.
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Taxes
Your filing status is set by your marital status on December 31. Child dependency follows the decree (with IRS Form 8332 releases where required). Post-2018 maintenance is neither deductible nor taxable. Withholding almost always needs updating.
Where LLF comes in: We coordinate with your tax preparer so the decree's tax assumptions actually show up on the return.
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Your estate plan
Your old will probably names your ex. Colorado revokes some provisions automatically — but automatic isn't a plan. New will, new powers of attorney, new medical directive, updated guardianship nominations for your kids.
Where LLF comes in:Estate planning is half our practice: we rebuild your plan to match your new life — usually in one sitting.
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Your choice: no-charge 20-minute phone call OR in-depth hour ($300) — both directly with Charles.
Written & reviewed by Charles E. Liken Jr., Esq.Colorado Attorney Since 2003 · Deputy District Attorney (2018–2020) · 700+ investigations · Reviewed for accuracy as of July 2026
Quick answers
How do I get my maiden name back after divorce in Colorado?
Easiest is asking for name restoration in the decree itself. If the decree is silent, a short post-decree motion and order (JDF 1824/1825) restores your prior name — then update Social Security, DMV, and passport in that order.
Does divorce automatically remove my ex from my life insurance?
Sometimes. Colorado's revocation-on-divorce statute cancels many designations naming an ex-spouse, but federal-law employer plans (like 401(k)s and employer life insurance) pay whoever is on the form. Update every beneficiary form in writing.
Can I stay on my ex's health insurance?
Not as a spouse. Divorce is a COBRA qualifying event allowing up to 36 months of continued coverage at full premium, and it opens a special enrollment period for marketplace plans.
Do I really need a new will after divorce?
Yes. Automatic revocation rules are partial and vary by asset; a new will, powers of attorney, medical directive, and guardianship nominations make sure your new intentions — not your old ones — control.
Keep It Working
Your decree is a contract — treat it like one
Get several certified copies of the decree and separation agreement; agencies and lenders want originals with seals. Keep every support payment, exchange, and reimbursement documented — apps and bank transfers beat cash and memory.
And when the other side stops performing — support unpaid, refinance ignored, QDRO stalled — you have real remedies. That's what our Contempt & Enforcement practice does all day.
Step by step
First 30 days — Certified copies · close joint accounts · update beneficiaries · health-coverage handoff · new passwords everywhere.
First 90 days — Name-change cascade · tax withholding · vehicle titles & registrations · insurance policies rewritten.
First year — Decree deadlines (refinance, QDRO, transfers) confirmed complete · new estate plan signed · credit re-checked.
Ongoing — Document support & parenting exchanges · calendar future triggers (emancipation, maintenance end, sale dates).
Bring your decree to a single strategy session and leave with a dated, personal punch list — plus the motions, orders, and estate documents queued where the firm can save you the trip.